How Long Should I Wait Until I Date Again?

Published: 21st July 2010
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Dear friend, are you just coming out of a relationship and wonder if you should wait for a while before you date again? Do you need some time for your emotional scars to heal? Did things end badly in your last relationship and leave you feeling that you're in no condition to date right now? How long should you wait until you date again? If you have any of the above questions, this is the article you definitely want to read ...

A couple of years ago, I had a horrible breakup. I was completely heart-broken. I cried a lot and refused to get out and socialize like I used to. I felt rejected by the man I was so love with. Everything seemed hopeless. Do you know how long it took me to recover from it and get on with my life? 6 months. For a good half a year, I was miserable.

What's the lesson to be learned? If I have another bad breakup again, guess how long I would wait this time? Not even a minute. What I've learned is that healing by ourselves is the slowest and least effective way to get over a man. The faster and better way is to start dating and dating a few guys at the same time.

You certainly don't want to dive into another serious relationship quickly. Instead, date a few guys at the same time. Date men who you would normally not date. Have a good time. Flirt like a social butterfly. Before you know it, you have got over the last man with as little pain as possible.

The best medicine for a bad breakup is another man's attention. Don't feel guilty or worried. Men do this all the times. They get over their exes quickly and stop thinking about them as soon as the relationships end. That's the way to go.

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This article is contributed by Alexandra Fox, a popular dating coach with a huge following. She has written many online books. You can find more about her by visiting her website.

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